粤典 (words.hk)香港词
扭人耳仔嘅行為，夾硬控制佢聽自己話 (to twist someone's ear or to be compelled to twist one's own ear; often as an act to signify that somebody has done something wrong; can be used metaphorically for someone being under another's control (esp. schoolchildren vs teachers and husband vs wife))
動詞用例
我成日俾老婆扭耳仔。
ngo5 sing4 jat6 bei2 lou5 po4 nau2 ji5 zai2
I'm always under my wife's control.